Love...

Love...A small word and no limits to impact.
Its Mohabbat for a Aashiq for his beloved,Ishq for Sufis for their Khwaja,prem for Gopis for their Krishan,Mother's love for her child...and so on.
What is Love?(Okies don't laugh!I do think about this question)
Various connotations.But aaj hum baat karenge Ek Aashiq aur Mehbooba wale pyaar ki...

Been hearing/experiencing so many breakups.Young people fall in love at age when they don't know the meaning of it.
Promises made,broken...relationships,commitments.Many fail in the final hurdle and only a few lucky ones get their dildaars.(God Bless u guyz..)
Why do relationships fail?Why is that most of the times love doesn't end up into marriage?Why is that the person you think you will lay your life for and have devoted your life to suddenly become so distant,so far,so stranger,so enemy that you start hating him/her?

Expectations,it is the first thing which comes to my mind.People expect too much from others when they are in a relationship.Tum pehle to aise the...us time to u were saying this...What the heck!It ultimately spoils the whole thing b'coz in love you don't have to take always...

Ishq di mere Mitra Pehchhan Ihi,
Mit jaave Zidd jadon Apnaun di.

Love means giving.To give your all for your beloved's Happiness.It doesn't matter whether you are with him/her.What matters is that wherever he/she is,enjoying life.No problems at all.
Relationships don't work all the time.At that time,you have to let go of things.If its yours it will come back.If it doesn't,may be its the best for both.Don't expect.

Commitment:Girls want very early commitment in a relationship most of the times.Boys usually take some time to take responsibilities.Usually afraid of the society,peer pressure and parental fears.This thing I have noticed again and again that Indian Girls are more vocal,more bold,more proactive and more open about their Love life.Usually they are the ones who talk to their parents first,breaking the age old conservative traditions.How many times one sees that people back out from commiting to the relation,b'coz they have to make their career or look after some other things in life.They want to concentrate at one thing at one time.
And I think this is the biggest mistake one can make in life:(...
Love is never a hindrance to your progress.Rather it is the light which guides you through rough times,through dark periods...It is the force which motivates you to achieve BIG.In every happiness or sorrow,loved ones have to be together.
It cannot happen that you embark upon some quest,journey leaving your beloved behind and expect that he/she will wait!No wayzzzzz...Only a very-2-2 strong feeling and luck can get you your love back in case you choose you so after your achieving ath or making your career.
My advice...Make your love,your strength...not your weakness.

Memories:There is nothing as sweet as memories of your first love..."Meetha Dard" suna hai naam...
People spend their whole lives with these memories.
Let them remain a sacred and pure part of yours!!!Njoy...

Parents/Caste/Religion:No need to say much on this.Taal's dialogue"Agar mera Pyaar sacha hai,to use mujh tak aane mein aap to kya duniya ki koi taakat nahin rok sakti"

Sentiments: Facts and reports say that "Heart Breaks can lead to more suicides in Men as compared to Women"Surprised...
Finally its not the women who are the Fair/weaker sex of the two!!!Boys are more sentimental.Sentimental Fools I wud say.

In the end since there has to be a Happy Ending in every ishtory of mine.
So I wud say ki Har kisi ke liye kahin na kahin koi na koi bana hai...Allah Rakha!!!

And some last minute inputs by Tushi...here

Girls generally break up a relation iff they have some back up while boys they end up loving and losing a single person.And we are called the Ditchers..Thats the irony.
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